Part 1:
I found this part of the experiment pretty easy while not
communicating with words or ASL. As for my partner, they were able to express
their points across more because I was not interrupting them in the middle of
their sentences. I was still able to agree and disagree with them by either
nodding or giving them a disapproving expression on my face. Throughout the
conversation their tone tends not to change, because of the passion they have
with whatever they wanted to talk about. As for the interaction of two
different cultures meeting for the first time, it is assumed that the culture
that is speaking would be the one communicating complex ideas. The attitudes
that the speaking culture might have may go two ways: they may be passionate
about what point they are trying to get across or they may be annoyed that the
other culture isn’t expressing their ideas about the topic. Individuals in our
culture that have difficulty communicating with spoken language is deaf people.
When speaking with a deaf person, it may change the way those who speak with
them because they obviously cannot hear what they are saying. People usually
tend to speak slower so that the deaf person can make out what words they are
saying by reading their lips.
Part 2:
To be completely honest, I was not able to last 15 minutes
of only using speech for communicating. I feel like there was no emotion in my
words, so I felt like my partner could not fully understand what I was saying.
Because I felt like they couldn’t understand, I had to keep repeating myself
but in different words. Every single time, I felt unsatisfied by the way I was
speaking to them. My partner’s reaction toward this experiment was very
confused and/or bored, as if they did not want to listen to what I had to say.
They were very uninterested in the topic I was talking about. This shows that
“signs” in our language is very important in able to properly express our
point. Most would not take anyone seriously if there were no “signs” in their
language. There are people who have difficulty reading body language. For one,
blind people cannot even see the body language that is being expressed, so they
obviously have difficulty in this. The adaptive benefit to possessing the
ability to read body language is that they can understand what a person is
feeling just by understanding certain body movements. Understanding one’s
feelings before speaking with them can be beneficial in many ways between
courting someone to interviewing for a job. Unfortunately, I cannot think of a
scenario where it is beneficial to not read body language, because body
language is what determines the attitude and mood of others.
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ReplyDeleteHello Angelo,
DeleteI agree with you that we strongly need to read body language in communicating with people. There has been many studies done in these area, it proves that body language can be a clue to real people's feelings, emotions, and behavior. Skilled researchers are able to identify when a person is lying, cheating, deceitful, and manipulative, just by observing or analysing their body language.
Did you try to do more than agree or disagree with your partners in Part A? Why or why not? Were you able to initiate a conversation topic? Discuss politics? Could you explain Darwin's theory of evolution? Perhaps your conversation was easy because you chose a path the made it so, but does that accurately reflect how you would need to interact with the world around you?
ReplyDeleteYou say your partners didn't change their tone, but did they change how they communicated with you in any other way? Did they switch to "yes" or "no" questions automatically?
Okay on your cultural interaction section. I was interested in your description of how people interact with others who are deaf. Is that an accurate description or the ideal of what should happen? I've seen people raising their voices when speaking to those who are deaf, as if that would help. Why do they do that? Are people usually comfortable with their interaction with people who don't use spoken language? Why or why not?
Much better exploration and discussion for part B. Good description.
Regarding the possible benefit of not reading body language, is there ever a situation where body language may be lying to you, where you should ignore it and just pay attention to the spoken language? Do all cultures use the same body language?